BY: Santtana Looganaden
“An apology is a lovely perfume; it can transform the clumsiest moment into a gracious gift.”
Don’t apologise for telling someone how you feel; whether it’s something good or bad.
Don’t apologise for your honesty or your feelings.
Don’t apologise for protecting your heart whether by being too guarded or walking away too soon. Sometimes you’re the only one who knows how to heal yourself.
Don’t apologise for following your heart either.
Don’t apologise for making a decision that will make you happy. Even if it might disappoint some people, if you truly believe it’s right for you, you should not feel guilty about it.
Don’t apologise for your vulnerability. For crying when you’re upset, for needing space when you’re confused and don’t apologise for the way you choose to handle your pain.Don’t apologise for being a bad friend to someone who wasn’t there for you when you needed them. You learn who your true friends are when times get rough.
Don’t apologise for taking a chance on someone who’s wrong for you. Don’t listen to the ‘I told you so’ and ‘we warned you.’
Don’t apologise for asking for closure. It’s not a crime. It’s not too needy. It’s not too crazy. It’s your right.
Sometimes apology is the shell we wrap around us to escape the real world, but why bother. This side of you shows the real you. So don't be ashamed of being you.
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